“Burn It down”

“Burn It down”

I wrote  this in my journal on March 30, 2022: I’m inspired to put a big ‘coming soon’ on my website. Burn it down. Create new. It seems a little extreme. I could burn it down and shock anyone who visits this website or I can take a more subtle...

An ADHD Thanksgiving: Canadian Style

You’re an adult with ADHD. Are you ready for an ADHD Thanksgiving? Do you find holidays such as Thanksgiving overwhelming? In Canada, we celebrated Thanksgiving last month, but Americans are getting into the holiday season. It will look different this year...
The earliest panic attack I remember

The earliest panic attack I remember

I was in grade 7 (“7th grade” in American) shop class. The teacher was explaining how to make a spice rack. I tuned out, likely daydreaming. I didn’t hear anything he said. When Mr. “What’s His Name” was done instructing, I had no...
Celebrate Your Wins Daily.

Celebrate Your Wins Daily.

A few months ago, it occurred to me that we experience small wins every day. We also experience missteps, mistakes and gaffes (or what we perceive to be) every day. We either quickly recover from those, or we obsess over them. It’s our choice. Here’s some...
The Biggest Wall You Have To Climb.

The Biggest Wall You Have To Climb.

“The biggest wall you have to climb is the one you build in your mind: Never let your mind talk you out of your dreams, trick you into giving up. Never let your mind become the greatest obstacle to success. To get your mind on the right track, the rest will follow.”...
Try As Hard As You Can

Try As Hard As You Can

“To tell a person who has ADD to try harder is about as helpful as telling someone who is nearsighted to squint harder.” ― Edward M. Hallowell, Delivered from Distraction. If you have ADHD symptoms ― whether officially diagnosed or not ― there are things...
Allowing Feelings

Allowing Feelings

Image by Mark Filter from Pixabay When I was 20, someone close to me had a fatal accident. In wishing me condolences, several people told me, “I know how you feel,” shared, “I know how you feel, I [insert example of loss from their life]” or,...
ADHD and Overwhelm

ADHD and Overwhelm

As I type this, it’s Christmas week. The holidays are particularly overwhelming. We’re living in stressful times. All of us, neurodiverse and neurotypical alike. Neurotypicals feel it differently. Those with ADHD experience life more intensely than neurotypicals We...
Masking ADHD

Masking ADHD

I recently had an “a-ha” moment. As an ADHD coach and someone with ADHD, I’m continuously learning about ADHD. I’m aware that ADHD and Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) share symptoms. I recently heard an example that stopped me in my tracks, literally. I was...
The Holiday Food Shaming Begins

The Holiday Food Shaming Begins

I share this post every few years. It’s been published on many of my blogs. It was originally written in 2016, slightly edited and added to in mid-October 2019. It’s a rant about “guilt” marketing and food shaming. It has nothing to do with...